Right Thing, Right
Reason, Right Time
This
past month, I was handing out our July newsletter at church when I saw my dear
friend Olive. As I gave
her the Conchshell
Chronicles, she said: “Maik, I am so happy to get this! It makes me sleep very peacefully after I
read it.”
I replied: “I know that I
have that effect on a lot of people. That is why I serve strong coffee when I
teach.”
Olive blushed and said
laughing: “You know what I mean!”
Each
month, I find myself asking the Lord for His Words to pass on to you. It is my opportunity to take some of my
lessons that I have learned by my experience working with the Miskitos as well
as our travels in the Bible lands, and pass them on to many dear friends like
Olive. It is me playing my part in the
Body of Christ, and this body of believers that God has given us relationship
with over the years.
So this month of August,
what shall I pass on to you?
My excitement at the time with our teachers in
Nicaragua this past month?
It is hard to believe that we have been working with these same guys for 26
years, and this year are finally at a place to see fundamental changes in the
way our teachers and students think about God and their place in His Kingdom.
Our Coffee Shop / Church
on the island of Utila? This project has been years in the making-
actually since 1989 when we first visited Utila and became friends with Edith
and Troy Bodden- 21 years ago. We sensed
then that God wanted to do something, and in 1995 we took some exploratory
steps. But it wasn’t the right
time. Now it appears that it is. We have a good coffee source in Honduras, and
we know how to prepare and serve coffee.
We have the first part of the team who are committed to the vision. Others will come over these next months, and
we will see God’s plan unfold, and we will see fruit that will be great than we
are even imagining now. This month of August we are on Utila, serving our Rio
Coco Beans coffee and making friends. Through our efforts, God is making
friends, and people are being brought from misunderstandings about
religion to a personal relationship with the Creator.
I am reading a book on
leadership now, and one of the definitions of a good leader is a person who does the right thing, for the
right reasons, at the right time.
Think about it. We could have done the Utila ministry in the
‘90s because we know that God wants to save souls, and we like living on an
island that is like Hawaii 50 years ago.
Right thing but maybe the Wrong reason.
Perhaps that is why things didn’t work out then.
At this point in our
lives, we really don’t care to live on a slightly rugged island, but we know
that He is calling us to do this, even though we really don’t have the time in
our schedule. Time and time again in
these past three years of our visits, we have had significant witnessing
opportunities with young Europeans, Israelis, Americans, and Australians who
would never go to a church in their homeland.
We have even seen some receive Jesus.
The Right Thing for the
Right Reason.
In 1995, we had no
“vehicle” for a “friendship ministry” on Utila.
However, due to no real plan of our own, we started Rio Coco Beans
Coffee in the fall of 2004, many due to the efforts of Mike Remedios and Scott
Snyder of Hope Chapel in Raleigh NC area, and with the help of coffee roaster
Larry Larson (of Larry’s Beans). I felt
like an “innocent bystander” as all this was happening. Six years later, we are truly in the coffee
business, with our own roasting facility, and officially registered with the
FDA as “coffee importers”, and with over 25,000 lbs of coffee in our warehouse
ready to be roasted and sold. We have four high quality coffee sources
(Nicaragua, Ethiopia, Honduras, and Indonesia) that are “Humanic” from the
fields to the cup to the classrooms. It is amazing what God has done.
Right Thing for the Right
Reason, at the Right Time.
I find this principle
works in my parenting as well. I have
general principles to apply to my relationship with my children, but God has
taught me to check my motives, and wait for His green light for action, words,
and consequences. My “programmed”
strategy now has a very personal touch that is reaping relational rewards with
my children. And also with my wife, who
is very worthy of me taking care of her in a Godly manner.
Are you getting sleepy yet Olive?
This Right Thing—Right Reason—Right Time
principle works well with our business.
I have realized this especially with our coffee project. Integrity in business practice is everything
when you are doing your business for the Lord.
Opportunities that seem “appropriate” may not be the right move. God has a plan, and in our business, He has
made it very clear that it is all about the relationships with our clients who
drink our coffee. We have an opportunity
through our business to show that we are indeed are His disciples, and that
will eventually give us an open door through the relationship to speak into
their lives. But we speak the appropriate thing, for the appropriate reason at
the appropriate time.
I spoke to Olive’s son
Jeff today, and he laughed when I said I was writing about what his mom
said. Then he paused and said, “Well, I keep your letter on my nightstand,
because I do get inspired, and it’s a good time to pray for you and our friends
in Nicaragua.”
I hope that this is the
case for many of you. We have a small
mailing list. We know almost all of you
well. We value our relationship with you
and your input into our lives. We can’t
make it without your prayers, and your help.
So if I am providing a
non-prescription sleeping aid in return,
well then so be it. MB
Lamb Bleatings
By
Laura
Constant Scraping…..
In
the last few years, I have experienced quite a bit of rubbing and scraping away
of my flesh on many levels. New evils
continually being discovered and dealt with on a pretty regular basis. Through all of my discoveries, tantrums,
misbehavior and other negative traits that blare forth in bold letters (and
sometimes in foreign words), I recognize deeply the truth,
“All have sinned
and fall short of the glory of God.”
Romans
I,
for one, have become acutely aware of my own sin and the impact of my own wrong
thinking, believing, and acting. I am
like the deaf and blind man that needs continual healing and restoration in my
life in order to bring me to the place that I am hearing well and seeing well
from God’s perspective and not my own or the worlds. This is a constant challenge…..my will, our
will or His will.
Ultimately,
I see myself choosing His will over mine, but in the process I frequently
squirm, I wrestle, I protest and finally
come to the end of my stupid little self and give in to the Almighty, all
knowing hand of the Living God who cares for me and knows me more than I know
myself.
My
own evil and self will cause me to fight it almost every time.
I
have had years of practice…..in the most awkward and unappealing environments
…..an extreme lifestyle that many say, “I don’t know
how you do it.” Truly we don’t either,
but Only by the grace, love and power of the God we serve.
Extreme
conditions and environments….intermingling the complications and elevations
(the height, the depth, the joys, the sorrows) of personal relationships all
along the way…..Life is big. And ever so overwhelming causing us to desperately
trust in the Only true Salvation and redemption I know. Without which, I would sink to the deepest
levels of my own depravity.
There
is great freedom in knowing how low I can actually sink. To know my weaknesses and my strengths and
not to hide behind some kind of holy façade that causes me to look better than
I really am. I have come to know who I
am to a large degree and I mostly like what God does and accomplishes in and
through me. I have stood firm in moments
that I wanted to quit. I have watched as I committed myself to others even when
it cost me in order to benefit them. I
have observed myself do the wrong thing in the wrong moment, but I have also
examined more my tendency to do the right thing for the right reason when it
came down to the action by the holy grace of God and upon trusting Him in that
moment of need.
I
have been a part of a great many wrestling matches that demanded me to
submit. After a good fight, I end up
losing and finally dying to my own flesh.
I like that part about myself……The dying part because I know as I
decrease……..Christ can increase in and through my life.
My
goal and ultimate satisfaction is knowing Christ and His powerful love for
me. As I change and alter in becoming
more like Him, I become more and more effective to do and be for His eternal
glory and kingdom. Without life giving
alteration in my own life, I cannot impact another…..We are designed to impact
the world by who we are….not necessarily by what we do, but really who we are
in Christ.
Due
to teeth shifting and scraping in my mouth, I (with the help of my parents and
a kind dentist, Kay Betancourt) placed a
set of intrusive, lip rubbing braces on in order to hopefully “fix” the
numerous painful problems & shifting, and a lot of pain.
When
I arrived home from the dentist, it was the talk of the family (since we had
been deliberating about it for months) and Arielle looked at me and said,
“Ahhh, poor Mommy! Does it hurt?
Ahh, I am soooooo sorry.” Geez, I was thought???? Is it THAT bad?!
Then
sweet little Moselle came up to me and asked excitedly,
“Can I see Mommy!? AWWW, Mommy! Whoa, You look like a nerd now!”
I
said, “Oh, so now I can be a REAL nerd, huh?!” One of my “pet” sayings to all of my
children and anyone who gets close enough to me is the word, “NERD”. It has many endearing connotations in my book
and covers a lot of ground in the communication process without saying too
much…..mostly defined as not “being up to par.”
Mikaela
was a little more refined and asked, “Oh, mommy, does it hurt?”
I
went to show Lukas who was about to go to sleep. As I talked to him, I asked, “don’t you
notice anything different about me?”
He
looked at me hard (as I made sure my teeth were showing) and said, “No, what
mommy? What happen? Is it on your face?” I flashed a bigger smile and he said, “Oh, wow, I
didn’t even notice!”
Somehow,
his comment was the most comforting of all of my children.
The
shallow husband and wife team just wondered how it would be to kiss…..
The
kids asked, “will it hurt?”
We
assured them it would be okay.
Back to the spiritual point….
Since acquiring this new appendage in my
mouth, I have drawn many positive life thoughts from this brace
experience. I feel like I am in
prison…with many liberties being cut off from my life. Because of the pain on all of my teeth, I am
unable to eat foods that I really enjoy. My diet is being completely altered to
soft mushy things that get stuck in between the grids….it is gross. I love texture and crunchiness, but have had
to curtail those fun events…No it is not a big deal in the scheme of life, but
to have the continual pain, scraping and annoyance going on is never enjoyable. It has reminded me of this thing we call, “dying to the
flesh and living for the greater hope and glory of things to come.” The process is not easy, but the
results, by faith, should be better than the present state of affairs. Am I willing to pay this temporary price for
the greater good and function of my teeth?
I am ever aware of this thing in my mouth
when it acts up and starts scraping some of my lip away. It is a momentary light affliction that will
hopefully lead to a place of greater joy if maintained and cared for properly.
It demands me paying the price, allowing the
process to take its course and believing it will be better.
Christ
paid the ultimate price to buy our freedom so that we would not be a slave to
sin, our issues, our way, our agenda, our past, our time, etc. We are victorious and free to live for
Him.
Will
it hurt?
Will
we feel humiliated and totally dependent?
Will
it be inconvenient and uncomfortable?
Will
we feel sorry?
Must
I die so He can live?
Affirmative
on all counts, yet, the promises remain and there are many which declare His
constancy, love, faithful forever presence in all and through all and the one
thing God cannot do is FAIL.
He is trustworthy on all counts and able to do
exactly what He said He would do in your life and mine. The question is, “Will we let
Him?” That, is a moment by moment
question that demands the appropriate action that is dependent on Him, for Him
and by Him. We can do nothing without
Him…and without faith, it is impossible to please God. Laura
Just Be
Straighforward!
By
Mikaela Bagby
When
my brother’s friends all graduated this past year, their main “motto” after
graduation was, “just be
straight forward”. No matter what
the situation, you tell it like it is, even if it costs you something. My
brother and his friends would say it ALL THE TIME. At first I thought it was
silly because they would always say it jokingly. I didn’t pay much attention to
it, but that was before I ever thought to apply it to my life and my
relationships.
Over the past few weeks
there have been certain events that have caused me to think about that “just be straight forward” statement. I found that I started to see
the fine line between relationships that were either “straight forward” or they
were just a front to mask something that didn’t want to be seen. I started to see the difference in people
that were REAL and people that were trying to hold a faultless image in
place.
When you’re a Christian constantly trying witness to others, it’s easy to get caught up in that whole perfect image, do no wrong thing. There are a lot of times I catch myself feeling like I have to be painfully… bright and shiny. Just so I can impress a non-Christian or even a new believer. But then I see my parents and the relationships they build and I admire their “non-religious” way of operation. They’re not afraid to show there faults, and they’re certainly never afraid to admit their having a hard time. Being “straight forward” is all about telling it like it is, and building relationships on something more than just squishy bright facts. Being perfect doesn’t exist, nor will it ever, and being a Christian means we have something to live for, not something that gives us a right to lie and say were “fine” when were really not. People don’t relate to that kind of stuff anyway. Their usually attracted to people that have gone through the same things as them. Life is too short to hide behind some kind of made up image. God gave you a testimony… so use it. Don’t hide it. Mikaela
The Bagby Bunch Corner
We in Honduras this month, beginning a ministry on
the island of Utila, where Mik and Luk learned to swim many years ago. Who would ever think that we would be here,
sharing the the Good News with Europeans, Australians, and North
Americans. It is a good thing that we
like people (generally) and enjoy coffee.
Relationship are what the Kingdom of God is all
about, yet we find that often we have to work through the issues to enjoy the
fruit. Our study in the Book of Acts
confirms that often bad things happen in relationships so that later very good
things will occur. I have learned that
when conflict arises with friends and “not-so-friends”, if I am patient, hold
my tongue, do the right thing for the right reason at the right time, I can
expect that I will come out of the situation better friends with my
“conflictees”. It takes patience, and an
ability to trust in God for the solution, even when you want to make it happen
on your own.
This month, we are with our friends Troy and Edith
Bodden, who are native Utilians, and have been our friends since 1989. They were just starting out their dive
business that year, and since, God has allowed them to have a major impact on
the island. Both are known for their
integrity, and their kindness. We are
blessed to have them as our friends, and ministry partners, Pray for them, their sons Trevor and Troy
Boy. This couple will have a major
impact on our ministry efforts in these next months.
We are launching a study
on the Book of Acts which will be via an email study of what has become the ministry manual for our
outreach on Utila. We will read
significant passages in each chapter and discuss the principles. Already we are benefiting from timeless principles
we are discovering. If you would like to participate with us over these next months,
simply e-mail us (lambagby@cs.com) and we will place you on the “roster”.
You notice that we have ued photos from our trip to
Montana in June– with snow. It may help abate the heat that
you and we are probably experiencing this summer. We love you all. Thanks for being with us! Laura
& Michael
Coffee Roasting Notes
To the Dark Side
“Luke, we are
taking this to the dark side” I said a few weeks ago. I was at the Roasting Room with our master
coffee roaster, Luke Broadhurst. I had
decided to roast our Honduran
Marcala coffee much darker. I felt it needed something and agreed to keep
it in the roaster a few more minutes. We
were right! The dark side of this bean is deep vanilla-honey choco flavor. And
it is smooth. Look for “Honduras Libertad”.
“We’re going to the Light side!” I said as we poured in our Colombia Manizales coffee. Chef Daryl Mackin had recently tested this
coffee for us, and he called it Cinnamon bark aroma, with a cinnamon, floral
flavor. He declared it to be one of the
smoother coffees that he had ever tasted.
Roasting this Colombian lighter brought out these delicate flavors even
more.
Chef Daryl also tested our
Papau New Guinea coffee and called it “woody, earthy, with a soft lime
flavor”. We light roasted the last batch
of that as well to bring out these tones.
You may purchase these
coffees at our website: www.riococobeans.com
How You Can Help This Month:
Here are some
suggestions for you get personally involved in God’s plan for education on the
Rio Coco in Nicaragua:
1) Sponsor a
Miskito Child. We need many sponsors for the 2010 school
year. It is only $27 a
month, and it will provide education and special needs to a student in Project
Ezra.
2) Contribute
to the building fund for
the Waspam Center . Windows, computers, desks, and paint are needed.
3) Help Nutie
& Tom build their home. The roof is on! Now we have to build the
interior walls and finish doors and windows.
4) Join the
support team of a Seek The Lamb missionary! Nutie & Tom Keogh, and Laura &
Michael Bagby receive no salary from Seek The Lamb and rely on their personal
support team to cover their living & ministry expenses. Your gifts will go
a long way!
Please use the enclosed
envelope and response insert. All contributions are tax deductable, and
Greatly Needed and Appreciated!